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		<title>On Your Needs and Wants: You Are Your Own baseline — EP173</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2021 15:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>On the topic of your wants and needs being unique to you and not up for debate or comparison, being selfish, and worthiness. Often the baseline of what is too much is someone else’s experience, external. Reset the baseline back to you!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://candicewu.com/on-your-needs-and-wants-you-are-your-own-baseline/">On Your Needs and Wants: You Are Your Own baseline — EP173</a> appeared first on <a href="https://candicewu.com">Candice Wu</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the topic of your wants and needs being unique to you and not up for debate or comparison, being selfish, and worthiness. Many people have been told by society or those around them that their needs are too much – the baseline of what is too much is someone else’s experience, external. Reset the baseline back to you!</p>
<p>Please use the player below to listen or download this episode. To make it easier for you to get new episodes on your phone, you can also subscribe for new episodes on <a href="/podcast">Apple Podcast, Spotify, and other platforms</a>.</p>
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<p>Support The Embody Podcast with a small donation! I appreciate you receiving my sharing and if you would like to give back and nourish the Podcast, you can make a one-time donation <a href="https://venmo.com/candice-wu-2">@candice-wu-2 on Venmo</a> (just put a subject line indicating it is a donation) or go to my website for other options at <a href="https://CandiceWu.com/support">CandiceWu.com/support</a>.</p>
<h2>Links and Resources</h2>
<p><a href="https://osb.oyw.mybluehost.me/worthiness">You are More than Worthy Download from the Podcast</a></p>
<h2>Show Notes</h2>
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<li>00:00 Intro</li>
<li>01:14 Opening</li>
<li>01:37 Finding Yourself not Asserting Boundaries?</li>
<li>03:01 Your Needs are not up for Debate</li>
<li>03:43 Animals Get to have Needs</li>
<li>04:24 We get to have that as well!</li>
<li>08:21 We need to be selfish</li>
<li>09:40 People without Needs are not a Fair Baseline</li>
<li>11:41 How to Feel into Your Worthiness</li>
<li>14:22 Outro</li>
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<p>Intro Music by <a href="https://instagram.com/nwerber">Nick Werber</a></p>
<p>Featured Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@anthonytran?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Anthony Tran</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></p>
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		<title>You Are Pleasure — Worthy And Your Pleasure Lifts Others — EP141</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2020 15:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>You are sooo worthy of pleasure! In every area of your life. Pleasure can be tangled up with so much - our worthiness, betrayal of others if we have pleasure, whether we are selfish or self-centered, responsibility, and indulgence. In this episode, I talk about all this including how being in YOUR pleasure brings more to yourself and others.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://candicewu.com/you-are-pleasure-worthy-and-your-pleasure-lifts-others/">You Are Pleasure — Worthy And Your Pleasure Lifts Others — EP141</a> appeared first on <a href="https://candicewu.com">Candice Wu</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are sooo worthy of pleasure! In every area of your life.</p>
<p>Pleasure can be tangled up with so much &#8211; our worthiness, betrayal of others if we have pleasure, whether we are selfish or self-centered, responsibility, and indulgence.</p>
<p>In this episode, I talk about all this including how being in YOUR pleasure brings more to yourself and others, as well as how we can untangle the soul’s desire to love by not having and allow a deeper way to love &#8211; by having and being in your worth. This can connect straight to your bonds to your ancestry and humanity itself. This episode is also a reminder that you are deeply free, and a discussion about what we actually say to others when we decline or deprive our own pleasure.</p>
<p>Please use the player below to listen or download this episode. To make it easier for you to get new episodes on your phone, you can also subscribe for new episodes on <a href="/podcast">Apple Podcast, Spotify, and other platforms</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"></p>
<h2>Sponsored By</h2>
<p>Support The Embody Podcast with a small donation! I appreciate you receiving my sharing and if you would like to give back and nourish the Podcast, you can make a one-time donation @candice-wu-2 on Venmo (just put a subject line indicating it is a donation) or go to <a href="https://CandiceWu.com/support">my website for other options at CandiceWu.com/support</a>.</p>
<h2>Links and Resources</h2>
<p><a href="https://blog.feedspot.com/self_love_podcasts/">Top 100 Self Love Podcasts by Feedspot, Anuj Agarwal</a></p>
<p><strong>Other Episodes Mentioned:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/ep122">Align to Pleasure + Prajña — EP 128</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/ep128">When Discomfort Ripens, Calibrate Pleasure, Systemic Intergenerational Trauma EP 128</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/ep132">Restore Ways of Being: Carve out New Territory and Energy EP 132</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/ep136">Pleasure, Beauty and Capacity EP 136</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/harmony">Core Erotic Themes Fantasy & BDSM With Harmony — EP51</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/aleta">Aleta Cai & The Human Condition: Self Love, Sensuality, Permission & Submission — EP62</a></p>
<p><a href="http://candicewu.com/roxanne">Roxanne Partridge: Come Back to Your Native Psychic Land – Menstrual-Sexual Empowered Embodiment From the Depths Up & Out — EP100</a></p>
<h2>Show Notes</h2>
<ul>
<li>00:00 Intro</li>
<li>01:26 Top 100 Self Love Podcasts</li>
<li>02:24 Getting to Know My Pleasure</li>
<li>04:32 Enjoying the Little Things</li>
<li>07:47 There Have Been Times of Denial</li>
<li>08:29 Alignment With Your True Vibration</li>
<li>11:24 To Bein in Joy and See All Others</li>
<li>16:12 My King-Crab-Leg Story — Am I Allowed?</li>
<li>21:41 “You Are Suffering? I Am Going to Suffer Too.”</li>
<li>23:45 I Have Been Called Selfish!</li>
<li>25:36 Is Pleasure an Avoidance?</li>
<li>26:16 Developing More Capacity in Yourself</li>
<li>32:57 Let’s Connect About Pleasure</li>
<li>33:49 More Resources Around the Topic of Pleasure</li>
<li>36:08 Outro</li>
</ul>
<p>Intro Music by <a href="https://instagram.com/nwerber">Nick Werber</a></p>
<p>Featured Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@hansonluu?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Hanson Lu</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://candicewu.com/you-are-pleasure-worthy-and-your-pleasure-lifts-others/">You Are Pleasure — Worthy And Your Pleasure Lifts Others — EP141</a> appeared first on <a href="https://candicewu.com">Candice Wu</a>.</p>
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