Aleta Cai, a healer, and dominatrix who blends energy and somatic healing, brings a stimulating conversation on the Embody Podcast — the power of sexual energy, permission for pleasure, healing the body and feeling safe, shifting ancestral belief sets around power and sexuality.
Claim Your Authority ❤ Self — Love Note
I learned the hard way to never defer my authority. We have the right and freedom to make our own choices and they are ours to have. The truth is that we know deep inside our being what is OUR way at THIS time. This is your authority. Your intuition and core desires are your authority. Of course, you can take input from others and consider these opinions, but each person’s way is exquisitely unique.
Lessons in Self Love : Toxic Ancestors and Family Relationships — EP61
In this episode, I explore a question from a listener: “Can you receive love and strength from ancestors or relatives still alive if they are mentally sick/toxic/unhealthy?” I discuss tuning into the soul of our family members that we feel challenged by to receive more than their human form can give us, how our “toxic dynamics or relationships” are the opening to the story of pain or loss in the family, and how these can be taken up as an opportunity to become aware of our gaps in self-love.
Legacy Burdens Cross-Cultural Healing With Ifs & Embrace Your Unicorn Self With Deran Young — EP60
In this poignant and powerful conversation with Deran Young, founder of Black Therapists Rock, learn all about Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how you can use that to claim unseen parts of yourself as well as heal racism and racial and cross-cultural wounds. Deran shares about her perspectives on the Legacy Burden of the Black Community, her experiences of being Muslim for 5 years, in the US Air Force for 17, and her fascination with the magic of Unicorns.
Invite Your Younger Self to Meet Your Present Day Self ❤ Self – Love Note
So often our younger selves did not get what we needed and we go searching in the world as an adult for those needs to be met. We can gently shift out of that cycle. We have the resources now — more than we did when we were children. We can embrace our own worth — the worth that is inherent in our existence. Invite the younger part of you to turn towards and meet your present-day self in this practice.
Why Feel? Emotions & Embodiment for the Skeptic in You — EP59
In this episode, I talk about embodiment 101 for the skeptic in you, what qualities and capacities healing and integration requires, moving from rationalizing to feeling, the steps to feeling, the myths about being still or quiet, and accessing your wisdom.
