Perfectionism is a Fluid Concept with Suzi Tucker — EP41

Suzi Tucker, one of my Family Constellations teachers and colleagues, brings such a humble and grounded experience as a gifted Facilitator and human!

Her artful, nuanced, and poignant way of seeing life highlights the resonance of those who came before us, bringing peace and freedom.

In this episode, we explore:

  • Do we bother to take ourselves seriously?
  • Can we look instead of not look in order to honor our experiences?
  • And do we let ourselves complete things so that we can feel our own competence?
  • Do we hoard our own expression and why?
  • How nuance requires courage
  • Perfection as a fluid concept
  • Moving out of trance
  • Listening to your own words and creating Life Sentences
  • Moving outside the limits and parameters of our ancestors

Suzi helps people see reality as it is in present time, discover the fluidity and power of gratitude, and recognize that you have the depth of being to release old emotions that have been festering, perhaps for decades. She looks for the systemic characteristics that you may be experiencing as obstacles – for instance, loyalty to others’ failure, sadness, or pain – and then I look for ways within your family system to jumpstart your sense of permission and possibility. Whoever you are, she can speak your language.

Suzi’s book Gather Enough Fireflies is available on Amazon. She is also coeditor and contributing author to Messengers of Healing (2005), contributing author to Ten Commandments for Couples: For Every Aspect of Your Relationship Journey (2011), and contributing author to several related journals.

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Family Constellations Time Travel: Finding Context for Your Issue with Suzi Tucker — EP41a

Lean into Suzi Tucker’s colorful way to let the words of your current problems be felt in the body and deepen into the understanding of the context of your current problems within your ancestry.

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Show Notes

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 00:59 Special Patreon Group Healing Call
  • 02:03 Opening
  • 04:12 Interview
  • 05:30 Opening of Portals of Expression
  • 07:11 Hoarding
  • 09:37 Pebbles – Throwing One At a Time
  • 10:38 Small Completion / Connecting with each Creation
  • 13:29 Feeling Shoulder to Shoulder
  • 15:16 Who is Suzi Tucker?
  • 20:35 The Idea of Who I am now is passing
  • 22:59 Words to the Paint / Story about Parents sitting down
  • 25:52 What some… no… what I feel / Words are Underneath in the Family System
  • 29:11 It’s all about LOVE but LOVE is not necessarily positive
  • 30:13 “The Right to Write”
  • 32:43 Perfection is a Fluid Concept
  • 32:43 Fluid Perfection
  • 34:34 “Insight leads to Action and Action leads to Insight” ~ Bert Hellinger
  • 36:45 Movement & Parameters in the Lineage
  • 39:03 So Cynical
  • 39:47 What kind of words are you saying
  • 44:35 Good Life Sentences / Seed Sentences
  • 46:15 Lots of Death Sentences for Candice (LOL)
  • 47:08 The Impact of Self Talk: Moving out of a Trance
  • 49:37 The Allowance for Meaning / Bother to Take it Seriously
  • 50:41 What Challenges do you find for yourself now?
  • 51:58 The World Without Me
  • 52:45 What is Enlightenment?
  • 55:16 Grounded with Compass
  • 58:15 “I See You” a sentence for Facilitators
  • 59:18 Anything Else?
  • 59:46 Exploring Competency
  • 01:01:03 Outro

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